Dancing
Read the May 31 post on this blog to see how I think women often view dancing. It is sexual, with the freedom to act as if it's not. The experience is not dissimilar from other sexual activities, but you can walk away as if there were no sexual aspect to it. If this doesn't ring true with you, so be it, but at least you've seen what goes through my mind when I'm watching.
posted by Frederick at
7:31 PM
2 Comments:
i guess You are right...After writing my blog, i think maybe it is sexual. The difference is that for me it isn't sexual with the person with whom i am dancing. It is sexual in my mind with the person who is on my mind and with whom i have a connection. Dancing with another person doesn't make me want to have sex with that person, it gets me completely horny for You. (How come i could never explain that before?)
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Anastasia, at 4:04 PM
I think you prefer to deny, deny, deny. Telling yourself it's not at all sexual is easier than admitting that it is because admitting that you enjoy and want to do something "sexual" with another person makes you feel like you're "a slut" or that the person you're admitting it to will (or should) think you're "a slut". At least, that's my guess.
I don't think you're a slut. I think you enjoy being lusted after, on the dance floor or otherwise, without consideration for who is doing the lusting (because it's about you, not the other person). you enjoy it even more if the person lusting after you is someone attractive because it feels good to have someone attracted to you who could have just as easily picked someone else to pay attention to - even if you have no interest in taking advantage of his interest in you. This doesn't mean you're going to get on your knees or spread your legs. It just means it's nice to think someone would want you to.
At this point, I also should add (in all honesty) that I'd like to feel that way sometimes, too. That I am attractive in general, not just to one person - even if it is the only person who really counts. You know what I mean?
By
Frederick, at 5:50 PM
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