Calling Me on My crap
you know, I realized yesterday that you saying "Don't be silly. You know i love You." is a pretty effective way of calling Me on My crap.
And, it sure beats arguing about stupid stuff.
And, it sure beats arguing about stupid stuff.
posted by Frederick at
11:23 AM
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Sometimes i wonder about "calling You on Your crap" because it feels out of place for me to do that. U r the boss of me and not vice versa. So, it kinda feels weird. In fact yesterday when i said i didn't let You get away with something it sounded very strange and i was concerned as to how You would take it. Anyway, i guess we are still figuring this out. But, it seems to be working for the both of us...? As long as You are okay with it.
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Anastasia, at 11:34 AM
Yeah, I'm not a big fan of whether you can "let Me get away with something," but I don't see a problem with you pointing out when I'm being unreasonable or just plain stupid. you're not telling Me what to do, you're expressing an opinion. And, isn't that one of the things you've always felt was important? If, after considering whatever you say (i.e., "calling Me on My crap"), I still feel like I'm "right," we can deal with it then. It doesn't make Me feel like I'm not the Boss, it reminds Me that I am. Maybe that's weird, but it is true. I can listen to whatever you have to say because I ultimately get to decide. I just don't want you to start feeling like I'm not the Boss because I let you express an opinion. As far as I'm concerned, reminding Me that you are Mine and that you know that you are Mine is never a bad thing. It makes Me happy.
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Frederick, at 11:47 AM
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